Flourless Chocolate Espresso Mini Tortes with Chèvre Frosting (Grain-and-Sugar- Free) + Thoughts on Orthorexia

Flourless Chocolate Espresso Mini Tortes with Chèvre Frosting (Grain-and-Sugar- Free) + Thoughts on Orthorexia

I know orthorexia and I know it well.

I know what it’s like to spend every moment of the day thinking about food.

I know what it’s like to feel like any food off of my diet plan was worth spiraling into a binge or at least crying myself to sleep over.

I know what it’s like to feel like just sticking to my diet and losing weight would make the rest of my life somehow perfect.

For anyone still wondering, here’s the simplest definition of “orthorexia”: An obsession with eating foods that one considers healthy.

In my experience, food (and body) obsession is a dark, stifling, and exhausting place to live in.

 

Precious energy is wasted checking our abs in the mirror, weighing our food, or hyperventilating in the bathroom at a party because there’s nothing there that we’re “allowed” to eat.

 

No thank you.

 

That’s not the life I’m interested in…

 

((says the woman sharing grain-and-sugar-free recipes))

 

I know.

 

I seem to contradict myself but that’s exactly why I’ve wanted to share this so openly!!

 

As I’ve grown out of the need for my body to look like a magazine cover and my food to be flawlessly controlled, I’ve picked up a few things.

 

I went through a period when I was healing my disordered eating that I thought EVERYONE WHO WANTED TO BE HEALTHY WAS AN OBSESSED NUTCASE.

 

If they wanted to do a juice fast, I assumed they were a body-obsessed perfectionist.

 

If they wanted to lose weight, I assumed they hated themselves.

 

If they put any structure or care into their diets, my brain screamed ORTHOREXIA!!!

 

But here’s what I’ve learned:

 

Two people can live side by side, doing the same things and living the same life…and one can have orthorexia while the other is completely calm, sane and healthy.

 

Whoah.

 

How do I figure that can be possible?

 

I’ve lived it.

 

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Dark Chocolate Tahini Cups (Plus Thoughts on Intuitive Eating with Food Restrictions)

Dark Chocolate Tahini Cups (Plus Thoughts on Intuitive Eating with Food Restrictions)

Early on in my “intuitive eating” experiment, I’d hear people ask questions like this:

“But what if I actually have to avoid certain foods??”

With so many years of restricted and regimented eating behind me, I really didn’t know what my body would do if I ate without any rules.

Turns out that rule-free eating was exactly what my sweet brain needed in order to relax…but my body has it’s own set of feel-good requirements.

And, over time, I’ve learned to listen…and without going back to the land of disordered eating and obsession!

There is a “new me” and an “old me” and they basically look the same.

The new me and the old me said “no” to sugar.

The new me and the old me lived with a lengthy list of things excluded from their diet.

The new me and the old me travel with a juicer, and always have packets of sea salt, a bottle of stevia, and a bar of “emergency chocolate” for all occasions.

Here’s the difference: 

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Almond Milk Chai with Whiskey + Thoughts on Nourishment Beyond Food

Almond Milk Chai with Whiskey + Thoughts on Nourishment Beyond Food

 

“Why do I eat, and eat, and EAT and never feel satisfied??”

 

I felt bottomless, my appetite surpassing every grown man I knew.

 

At the same time, I was desperate to lose weight.

 

I clung to this hope that once I got food under control and my dream body emerged, life would be magical.

 

I believed this, despite all the times when I HAD lost weight and it still didn’t scratch the itch.

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How I Marie Kondo’d The Heck Out Of My Diet.

How I Marie Kondo’d The Heck Out Of My Diet.

 

You know Marie Kondo, right?

 

In case you don’t, she’s the freaking GENIUS behind the book “The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up.”

 

Some call it a minimalist manifesto but I don’t think that’s necessarily what it is.

 

Marie’s one game-changing piece of advice is that if it doesn’t spark joy, GET RID OF IT.

 

Then – whether you’re surrounded by clean openness or a thousand trinkets that you completely adore – you’ll be surrounded by nothing but what brings you joy.

 

Now, HERE’S HOW IT HELPED ME HEAL MY RELATIONSHIP TO FOOD…

 

While I didn’t literally use this book to transform my binge eating and obsession with food – in hindsight, I did exactly what Marie did:

 

I REFUSED TO EAT ANY FOOD THAT DIDN’T SPARK JOY.



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